Learn more about the Eternal City through my “Seven Facts of the Week” and discover which are the characteristics that make it my favourite city.
When the ladies of the #Dolcevitabloggers’ group – the amazing Kelly, Kristie and Jasmine – shared the topic of this month’s linkup – “Favorite city in Italy” – I admit I internally cursed, since asking something like that to an Italian is almost like forcing a man to give up one of his limbs or asking him to choose between his mother and father. Was I supposed to say my hometown? The places related to my childhood? After much consideration, I’ve come to realize that all these doubts were pointless, as, let’s be honest, one can have personal preferences, but the winner is always going to be one and one only: Rome.
At this point, there was another issue: exactly today I was supposed to write an article about Rome as it’s part of a project I’m carrying out on Instagram + WordPress called “12 Weeks in Italy”. So, was I supposed to write about Rome twice in a day? I came to a conclusion that it was better to “prendere due piccioni con una fava” or “kill two birds with one stone”, as you people say in English, and I hope our lovely hosts will forgive me if I took the liberty of joining the two things.
So, why Rome?
It’s overwhelmingly beautiful
Saying “because it’s unfairly beautiful” sounds like stating the obvious, but eh, can you blame someone for saying it out aloud? It’s so packed with beautiful art that you often are under the impression that it’s all “too much” and you can’t handle it.
If you’ve seen La Grande Bellezza you probably remember the Japanese man looking down on Rome from the Gianicolo Hill and having an heart-attack as a result of the Stendhal’s Syndrome. When roaming around Rome, you don’t see cases as extreme, but you do actually witness to the weirdest reactions by tourists.
During my last stay in Rome, for example, as I was walking inside the historical complex of the Trajan’s Market – basically the first shopping mall in history – I saw a man crouching down, almost weeping, and softly caressing the bricks of a low wall.
As I approached him, slightly alarmed and considering if it was the case to call the Mental Health Services, I heard him quietly whispering: “The red brick of Rome…in Australia we don’t have the red brick!” So yeah guys, when you say that we Italians are overdramatic, please reconsider it as it must be something in the air, haha.
Jokes aside, even if we are Italian and it’s our own Capital city, Rome’s beauty never ceases to amaze us. It’s almost too much for a single city.
It’s authentic (even painfully so)
I don’t know about you, guys, but when talking about relationships and people in general, I have always craved for authenticity my whole life. I hardly stand liars and people that feel the need to act in order to be validated in a social environment. For this reason, I always feel quite at home among Romans who, even if can be rather brazen at times, they are not fake for sure and have not problems in sharing what they really think about you. As a person who has always liked to express her own views and that can handle other people’s opinions even if different, it’s always refreshing having a conversation with these people and not having to worry about them judging you for not being “proper” or compliant.
This level of authenticity is also reflected in the city itself, which is all but perfect, but that does not feel the need to lie about it. Rome can indeed be really frustrating and, as Severgnini likes to state “It’s the kind of place that can have you fuming and then purring in the space of a hundred meters”. You have to prepare yourself for a rollercoaster of emotions when in Rome as, yes, one moment you’ll be almost crying for the absolute beauty of it all, the next second you will scream in frustration for the utter disorganization in every aspect of the city life.
This does not mean that Romans lie about it, though, as I said. Even if sometimes they are a bit too stuck in their own ways and not very prone to change, they are well aware of the problems of living in such a city and they do not sugar-coat the reality of their everyday life. They tell you how it is to live in such a metropolis and won’t depict Rome as an Eden on Earth.
So, even if as normal citizens it must be really hard to live in Rome, I think that as tourists we are allowed to appreciate the frankness of its local culture and its ability to show itself as a real city with merits and flaws, and not as a model of perfection.
It’s the whole world in one city
“Caput mundi”, the Capital of the world, this is how Rome is nicknamed. Even if nowadays Italy has basically no relevance on an International level in terms of politics, when you set foot in Rome you do have the impression to be at the centre of the world.
There is no event, crises or struggle that Rome hasn’t seen and survived and it does seem that the Old Lady has a lot to teach to the new Superpowers of the world that nowadays are facing certain issues for the first time in their history. Rome and Romans have literally seen it all and their living history can be a teacher to all those who care to listen. It’s all written in the city’s ruins.
Before leaving you with my “7 facts of the week” about Rome, let me suggest to you to watch Oliver Astrologo’s video called “Roma” if you haven’t already. It’s the best video about the Eternal City out there, hands down.
Here you are the first 7 entries of my project “12 Weeks in Italy”. If you want to learn more about Italy and Italian culture, consider to follow me on Instagram where I share daily info and stay tuned in here. Grazie, a presto!
Rome is such a beautiful city!!! So much history is incredible 😍😍😍
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Indeed ❤
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I loved Rome when I visited. It always amazed me to see the modern and ancient buildings mingled together. Definitely a beautiful city!
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It’s an incredible city, isn’t it!?
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We think the same Sara. Undeniably my favourite Italian city as well. How could one not fall in love with Rome’s beauty and authenticity?? Great post. 🙂
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Indeed, one cannot be indifferent to Rome!!
Thank you ❤
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Rome is a pretty amazing city! I couldn’t make it through la grande bellezza, but what I did of it would make anyone want to visit Rome with such beautiful videography! Thanks for sharing 🙂
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I’m not a fan of La Grande Bellezza myself, but Sorrentino’s movies always have great videography and with a subject like Rome…well, you can’t go wrong!
Thanks for reading ❤
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I’ve tended to head north on my trips in Italy, but I’m determined to finally get to Rome in the not too distant future. All the Bernini and Caravaggio alone will have me swooning, as well as the history and sheer amazingness of the city. Loved getting your view and all of the facts of it!
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Thank you ❤❤ I’m sure you’ll love it!! And you’ll see, you’ll leave the city quite frustrated, because you won’t be able to see all there is to see…there’s just too much stuff!!! 😵😂❤
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As is always the case! I was thinking of going just to see a few specifics, with a good excuse to keep going back. 🙂 I’m sure Roma can become quickly overwhelming, otherwise!
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Yeah, you probably need your whole life to see Rome in its entirety! 😅
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Yes I remember Rome as an evocative city. It is such a fantastic blend of everything that has withstood the tests of time, space and conflict. I’m amazed by how knowledgeable you are about your country. It really puts me to shame how little interest I have in my own… 😂 Looking forward to your postings in 2018!
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Thank you dear, I’m looking forward your posts as well!! ❤❤
Oh, Australia is such an incredible country! I think it’s more focused on natural attractions, but you surely have plenty of things to discover!
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Sara, as always, a very well-written post and I was, of course, prepared to read many entries with Rome as the star! You made it refreshing though, telling your anecdote about the man you saw weeping new to the red brick. I need to spend more time in Rome, there’s no doubt about that. It’s just a quick train ride away.
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Thank you!
Yeah, now with Freccia and Italo Treno is very easy, quick and convenient to reach Rome also from the North!
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You’ve hit the nail on the head with your description of Rome. Beautiful and authentic, and of course with its own difficulties, but as a foreigner, I’ve always felt the same way about the people and that frankness sort of makes you feel at home.
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Yes, their frankness is refreshing and you feel among friends as they’re very welcoming (actually the locals are more welcoming than those who work in the Roman tourism department LOL, but that’s another story)
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Loved reading this post! You have a wonderful writing style, that makes reading your posts so enjoyable. 🙂 There are so many things we want to do and see in Rome and this just further proves that we have to go. ❤
Lucy and Kelly
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Oh, I’m glad you think so, as I’m always kind of insecure since English is not my first language! Thank you very much ❤
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Sara, I always love your blog & IG posts so much! They are always packed full of fascinating insight into Italian history & culture. I think you absolutely must put everything into book format someday!!! You are seriously the next Bepe Severgnini. I feel like there is so much more insight that you could add about the Italian culture! I love Rome too, although it is the most difficult accent for me to understand! I’ve had some magical moments in Rome, although last time I went with my family it was at the end of our 3 week trip and there was an intense heatwave in September so we were hot, cranky & exhausted 😀 I want to go back during cooler weather so my dad can experience the magic (my mom & I had been before). My family & I are so interested in Roman history. I feel like I could return to Rome for eternity and see or learn new things!
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You’re always too kind with me, Kelly, thank you very much ❤ ❤ I'm blushing!! I would love to write a book related to Italian customs/culture, maybe I should give it a try 😀
Oh yes, I can see why you have difficulties in understanding the Roman accent, as they tend to slur a lot.
Rome during summer is literally Hell on Earth, it's no surprising Romans flee the city in August!!
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I really appreciate reading your instagram series, so refreshing to read something meaningful and informative on instagram!! The very last picture there about the fascist architecture changing the experience of the city is really interesting and something I studied at university! I more looked at the baroque period and how the Popes used the urban design to emphasise their importance, but the fascist changes are also really significant. Anyway… I thought I knew quite a lot about Rome but everytime I read your posts I realise I really don’t haha!!
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Thank you very much, I’m glad you’re enjoying my ig series!! ❤
Ah, don''t be fooled by Rome, you never stop to learn about it, a lifetime is not enough! I'm not joking!
If you're interested to see the Basilica before the construction of Via della Conciliazione, here you are a short clip. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luPn5yBJo1U There's also Mussolini doing an inspection in the area, so he could see where "it was necessary to destroy"
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Aw loved this article. Rome is incredible. Every building even a commune is stunning. I literally watched La Grande Bellezza the other night and I didn’t realise that’s what happened to the tourist. My husband and I were wondering about it for ages! I find Romans quite theatrical, whenever they arrive everything gets louder, more fashionable and they make their presence known!
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Yes, I once saw an interview of Sorrentino and he explained what happened to the tourist at the beginning of the movie. He died because of “excess of beauty” XD
Yes, Romans definitely make their presence known!!
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Great to see Rome through eyes. The Giardino degli aranci was the first place amore brought me to on my first visit.
Oliver Astrologo’s video is extraordinary. Love it! Thank you! And I also didn’t realise that’s why the gentleman dies in the Grande Bellezza. But there is a lot I didn’t realise watching it, for example, what makes it so great. The Romans are exactly the people who would have plenty to say about a preposterous film like this. And my Romano certainly said it all, hahha.
On the other hand, he showed me some old Roman films that show the character of the people particularly well, for example Il Marchese del Grillo.
In your description you are very kind to the Romans. 🙂 I find them quite, if not extremely arrogant, they are not all that truthful, and they are quite the actors too. Not to mention milking the tourists on every corner, down to “errors” in returning change.
Well, if you continue down to Napoli they take the tires of your car just because you’re rich enough to drive one, so there’s that… In comparison Romans are angels. 😀 (Exaggerating on purpose.)
Looking forward to everything you wish to teach me about Rome and Italy, always. ❤
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*through YOUR eyes
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Oliver Astrologo has an impressive videography, I love all his works even if “Roma” remains my absolute favourite. If you check his channel you can also find a very beautiful video about Venice.
Haha, La Grande Bellezza is not my thing as well, but the scene of the Japanese tourist was a great example to explain the Stendhal Syndrome!
Haha, let’s say I focused on their values this time 😉 They can indeed be arrogant, but I can handle arrogance better than duplicity if you know what I mean…I can put arrogant people in their place if I need to, but you never know how to act with two-faced people.
As for “the actors” I tend to distinguish between locals and people who work in the tourist department… Being a swindler is sadly a characteristic of people who work in this kind of job, it’s not something I connect with being Roman. You can find swindlers in all the major touristic cities, but yes, I can agree with you on the fact that in Rome these people are generally particularly “capable” when tricking tourists…they do it with an impressive nonchalance
Awww, thank you ❤
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OMG I lOVE this post, Sara!
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Thank you ❤ ❤
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I love Rome and have lived there on and off. Monti was once my favorite neighborhood, but now I’m in love with Testaccio 😀
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Rome is stunning, isn’t it!? Those rioni never cease to impress!
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